For my first overseas business trip of the year I headed to London for some meetings with my client this week. I was not looking forward to traveling as I just felt like staying home with the family, but I was looking forward to spending some time there as a tourist with some of my team. A couple of them had never been to London, so we were taking a day or so to go around London - with me just kind of directing them to where they wanted to go as I have been to London several times.
The week ended up being great. Travel was easy. We had a great time looking around London. And the business meetings went very well. Yesterday I got on a plane back and got home safe and sound to be with the family again.
Here are some highlights of the trip.
PRET. I love the little shop called Pret A Manger (Ready to Eat in French). It is a chain that we first discovered in Hong Kong that serves fresh sandwiches on awesome bread and it known for being organic, etc. I honestly eat there almost every day I am in London. My team made fun of me as I always wanted to go there - but they weren't having it. They forced me to take a picture while there and nicknamed be Bret Pret (or various other similar things like Pret Prat, Bret Brat, Bret Prat).
MORMON. Most of my coworkers laughed as there was a ton of Book of Mormon (play) advertising around London. My boss is also Mormon.
St. Paul's Cathedral. I went here with Tevia a few years ago, but went again with one of my coworkers. Such a beautiful building and great view of London.
British Museum. Tevia had been here before, but not me. One of the coolest things I thought was seeing one of the original crystal skulls.
Tower Bridge. This was also my first time going up by Tower Bridge (and London Tower). While up in Tower Bridge there is a glass floor you can see below.
Fun trip.
Saturday, February 13, 2016
Wednesday, December 30, 2015
Bret's 2015 Favorites
Here are my favorites for 2015
Favorite Movies:
1 - Star Wars: The Force Awakens
2 - Jurassic World
3 - The Martian
4 - Furious 7
5 - Mad Max or Ex Machina (from Cleanflix)
Favorite Books:
1 - Ready Player One
2 - Firefight
3 - The Martian
4 - Okay For Now
5 - Star Wars: Dark Disciple
Favorite Songs (see playlist on side):
I loved Twenty One Pilots new album as well as Imagine Dragons. I probably could put more than 2 from each of those, but I didn't.
- Stressed Out - Twenty One Pilots
- Tear in my Heart - Twenty One Pilots
- Gold - Imagine Dragons
- I'm So Sorry - Imagine Dragons
- Good For You - Selena Gomez
- New Americana - Halsey
- Gooey - Glass Animals
- Lean On - Major Lazer, etc.
- Can't Deny My Love - Brandon Flowers
- Renegades - X-Ambassadors
Favorite Meal - first dinner in Jerusalem with Tevia at a small street vendor on a cold evening. So good.
Favorite TV Show: Didn't see many, so I'd say it's still Arrow since that is about the only show I watched.
Favorite Concert: Imagine Dragons (fun with Kathy, Jimmy, Cari)
Fun year!
Favorite Movies:
1 - Star Wars: The Force Awakens
2 - Jurassic World
3 - The Martian
4 - Furious 7
5 - Mad Max or Ex Machina (from Cleanflix)
Favorite Books:
1 - Ready Player One
2 - Firefight
3 - The Martian
4 - Okay For Now
5 - Star Wars: Dark Disciple
Favorite Songs (see playlist on side):
I loved Twenty One Pilots new album as well as Imagine Dragons. I probably could put more than 2 from each of those, but I didn't.
- Stressed Out - Twenty One Pilots
- Tear in my Heart - Twenty One Pilots
- Gold - Imagine Dragons
- I'm So Sorry - Imagine Dragons
- Good For You - Selena Gomez
- New Americana - Halsey
- Gooey - Glass Animals
- Lean On - Major Lazer, etc.
- Can't Deny My Love - Brandon Flowers
- Renegades - X-Ambassadors
Favorite Meal - first dinner in Jerusalem with Tevia at a small street vendor on a cold evening. So good.
Favorite TV Show: Didn't see many, so I'd say it's still Arrow since that is about the only show I watched.
Favorite Concert: Imagine Dragons (fun with Kathy, Jimmy, Cari)
Fun year!
Bret's 2015
2015 was an amazing year. As I looked back at what happened, I can't believe how much I did this year. Here are some of the highlights:
- A trip to Israel. This was a definite highlight as I have always wanted to go to Jerusalem. And my work gave me the opportunity to go - and so we decided to have Tevia come by, too. It was an amazing (though quick!) trip. And a great spiritual experience.
- Peru/Machu Picchu. We had been planning this trip for over a year and it was wonderful. This was another on my top 5 list (along with Israel), so I was able to scratch two off of my top 5 list this year! Being there with Tevia and her family made it even more fun.
- Quick anniversary trip to Mexico. Since we had so many other trips, our anniversary trip was scaled down. We went to Rocky Point just the two of us for the first time. And it was amazing. So fun and easy.
- Trip to London. I hadn't been to London for a while so it was fun to go back and work there for a week. One highlight was watching "Wicked".
- New work experience. I was asked to go on a new client this year that has been challenging and fun. It was a good time to get a change and I have been able to create a great team that is innovative, creative, and fun.
- Hiking the Grand Canyon. Tevia wanted me to join her this year on the rim-to-rim hike on the Grand Canyon. This was a great experience, though very tough. It was a beautiful trip and gave a great sense of satisfaction after hiking 24 miles in one day up and down the canyon.
- Star Wars. Having waited years for the next Star Wars movie, our entire family was ready for it this December. I was happy to have my expectations met - and even exceeded. We had fun going to the midnight showing and let the boys bring some friends, too. (we've seen it a couple of times afterwards, too)
Let's hope 2016 is just as fun.
- A trip to Israel. This was a definite highlight as I have always wanted to go to Jerusalem. And my work gave me the opportunity to go - and so we decided to have Tevia come by, too. It was an amazing (though quick!) trip. And a great spiritual experience.
- Peru/Machu Picchu. We had been planning this trip for over a year and it was wonderful. This was another on my top 5 list (along with Israel), so I was able to scratch two off of my top 5 list this year! Being there with Tevia and her family made it even more fun.
- Quick anniversary trip to Mexico. Since we had so many other trips, our anniversary trip was scaled down. We went to Rocky Point just the two of us for the first time. And it was amazing. So fun and easy.
- Trip to London. I hadn't been to London for a while so it was fun to go back and work there for a week. One highlight was watching "Wicked".
- New work experience. I was asked to go on a new client this year that has been challenging and fun. It was a good time to get a change and I have been able to create a great team that is innovative, creative, and fun.
- Hiking the Grand Canyon. Tevia wanted me to join her this year on the rim-to-rim hike on the Grand Canyon. This was a great experience, though very tough. It was a beautiful trip and gave a great sense of satisfaction after hiking 24 miles in one day up and down the canyon.
- Star Wars. Having waited years for the next Star Wars movie, our entire family was ready for it this December. I was happy to have my expectations met - and even exceeded. We had fun going to the midnight showing and let the boys bring some friends, too. (we've seen it a couple of times afterwards, too)
Let's hope 2016 is just as fun.
Monday, September 28, 2015
Grand Canyon Hike 2015
A couple of years ago Tevia hiked the Grand Canyon rim-to-rim with her dad and brother. It's a tough hike. Nearly 25 miles long and a big change in elevation. She trained for weeks and after the hike, though she was quite sore, she loved it. She was so happy and couldn't wait to do it again. "And next time I want to do it with you" she said. So the plan began to take shape.
We decided this summer would work well and she invited a few others to participate. In order to do the hike without getting into too much pain you do have to train. So Tevia and I started training weeks ago. Hikes on the weekend, walks around the park in the mornings and evenings, etc. I hike quite a bit, but 25 miles is a big difference from the 3 - 4 miles I would normally do on a weekend.
I think I prepared pretty well. So Friday we headed up to Flagstaff with Millie in tow to meet up with Tevia's parents and her brother Brandt (Toast). We then all jumped into our van and drove up to the North Rim. The plan was to have us stay the night and leave early Saturday morning towards the South Rim. Tevia's mom would be so nice as to drive the 5 hours to the South Rim while we were hiking.
As an interesting side note, our Stake President and 2nd Counselor had told us they wanted to do rim-to-rim as well. In the end they ended up doing the same day as us! Talk about crazy. So we helped them the night before park their car near the trailhead as they were having someone hiking from the other side to get their car. They would meet each other on the trail and swap keys. We got to see them quite often during our hike, which was very fun.
Last time Tevia had camped and I had thought it a better idea to get a hotel/cabin so we could be warmer, sleep better, and not have to worry about packing the tent. We could just get up and go. I liked my idea. Our cabin was small and in our cabin it was just Tevia and I and Millie. I didn't sleep much as I was excited and had some Dr. Pepper on the drive up. We woke up around 5 to get ready and met at the van at 5:30 AM and then Tevia's mom dropped us off at the trailhead. I'd say it was a brisk 45 or so - not nearly as cold as last time according to Tevia. This was nice as you want to pack as little as possible. When you know the temperature at the bottom will be 100+ degrees, packing down a coat doesn't sound fun. So I had just a long sleeve compression shirt and two leg sleeves which kept me warm enough for the first few miles before it began to warm up.
Tevia and I brought our Fitbits (gotta get those miles/steps!) and our phones with Endomondo on to track our distance. So every mile it would update us on how quickly we did the last mile. This was great at first as we knew the pace we wanted to go (not so great at the end). We had loaded up on carbs the day before which seemed to really help me. We had breakfast burritos for breakfast (while we hiked) and had plenty of water and other snacks; more than I ended up needing.
At the bottom we stopped for lunch at Phantom Ranch. This is not technically the half-way point for distance, but for time it basically is because after that it is all uphill. We had green chili burritos (made by Tevia's mom) which were great. I then changed my shirts and soaked my feet for a bit in the river. Most of the way down you follow a small river down the canyon until it reaches the Colorado. During lunch we chatted a bit with our friends from our church. We ran into a few others from our stake as well. The trail was pretty busy; busier than last time according to Tevia. At Phantom Ranch it was standing room only as all the tables were occupied.
We then began the hike up. It is only about 10 miles from Phantom Ranch, so mentally it seems that you are more than half-way (which you are looking at miles). But eventually that walking up the canyon starts to drag. I did pretty good until about 4.5 mile from the top. I didn't really have any sore muscles and no blisters. My feet felt good. But I was getting tired of drinking and eating. But I forced myself to keep doing it. We had brought some chocolate milks, which I think were lifesavers for me. At this point it really becomes a mental game. You have to avoid looking up or it really gets discouraging. Your feet don't want to go up anymore. My neck actually got a little sore just from looking down at the ground for so many hours.
Our goal was to get out before 12 hours. We left before 6, so the goal was to get out before 6. At about mile 3 to the end we stopped at one of the water holes and at this point I could smell the finish line. I got a good burst of energy and honestly could have really pounded it out quickly. But some of the others in our group weren't past their walls yet. In the end Tevia and I separated ahead of the group. We made it out a little before 5 PM. It was amazing to look back and see the Grand Canyon and know that you just walked that. You can't even see the buildings on the other side. There is a feeling of accomplishment and almost euphoria. People would sit on the top and clap as people made their way out. Some of these people were really struggling. And it was awesome to see the people cheer as they made their way out. For me, this was the coolest part. It touched my heart and made me think of a few things. Here are some of my musings along the long hike. I compared the hike to our lives.
1. The hike reminded me of life. The first part is great. It is fairly easy. It's downhill. People (parents/family) take care of you. You have time to look around and enjoy the beauty of the earth. At some point it starts to get hard. Whether we bring this on ourselves or if it is just part of life; it gets harder. Stress, jobs, heartache take place in our lives. It begins to feel more uphill. Sometimes the end seems so out of reach. It seems so easy to give up. Sometimes we just have to close our eyes and take the next step. We can't think of the future. We just have to "go".
At one point we passed an older gentleman who was quite a bit overweight. He was using his hiking poles and literally taking 12 inch steps every time he moved; slowly, but deliberately. I smiled as I passed him and asked if he was okay. He responded, with a smile, "I just keep saying to myself that in 2 hours I'll have a beer in my hand!" That was keeping him going. He had a goal. It was motivating. His reply gave me some motivation, too. I loved his reply and realized we all need goals to make it to the top. Whether we do our lives for our loved ones (spouse, kids, friends) or some other reason, if we don't have that in our lives, life kinda sucks. And many people, unfortunately, don't have something to live for. I am blessed that I do.
2. To continue on that theme, the other cool part was on the hike out there are a lot of switchbacks. This means you can see people that are 10 or 15 minutes ahead of you hiking on the trails above you. During the last few miles I would often look up and see two men wearing bright yellow and green shirts. It was our Stake President and his counselor. Just seeing them keep going was motivating to me. I knew they were in pain and feeling the same way I did; but they kept going. It was a literal moment where I could look up to church leaders and they provided me motivation and inspiration just by continuing to move one step at a time. As leaders we should remember this. We don't always have to inspire by being clever or wise or spiritual. We often can inspire by just doing.
3. My favorite part was seeing people get hugs and praise from family and friends as they reached the top. There was a church group in green shirts that had quite a large group of hikers. As each one reached the top they would hear shouts of joy and hugs and love. I couldn't help but imagine that this is what it will be like as we finish our lives. After Tevia and I reached the top we found her mom and then the three of us watched the trail just hoping to see the others in our group. When we did we yelled and waved and hoped to inspire them. I didn't think much about the pain in my legs or how I really wanted to just lay down; but I wanted to see them. I think when we reach that point we will likely have a similar reaction. Even if we don't have family or friends there; Jesus will be there to embrace us. He'll know what we've been through and he'll be so happy to see us finish. And I imagine that love and embrace will wash away all of our hard memories and trials. We'll forget how hard some of those moments were. And we'll have that sense of accomplishment. Some of us may get out sooner; some may take a long time - but we'll all make it out. And we'll look back and say "I did that! I finished the journey."
Like the trek we did this year (and a few years ago), I think it is great for us to do hard things. It changes our perception. This trip didn't just give me a sense of accomplishment and an opportunity to see one of the most beautiful creations on earth, but I did it with loved ones and in the end I emerged at the top holding the hand of God's greatest gift to me: my best friend and wife. And I hope that is how we can finish the grander journey we are both on, too.
We decided this summer would work well and she invited a few others to participate. In order to do the hike without getting into too much pain you do have to train. So Tevia and I started training weeks ago. Hikes on the weekend, walks around the park in the mornings and evenings, etc. I hike quite a bit, but 25 miles is a big difference from the 3 - 4 miles I would normally do on a weekend.
I think I prepared pretty well. So Friday we headed up to Flagstaff with Millie in tow to meet up with Tevia's parents and her brother Brandt (Toast). We then all jumped into our van and drove up to the North Rim. The plan was to have us stay the night and leave early Saturday morning towards the South Rim. Tevia's mom would be so nice as to drive the 5 hours to the South Rim while we were hiking.
As an interesting side note, our Stake President and 2nd Counselor had told us they wanted to do rim-to-rim as well. In the end they ended up doing the same day as us! Talk about crazy. So we helped them the night before park their car near the trailhead as they were having someone hiking from the other side to get their car. They would meet each other on the trail and swap keys. We got to see them quite often during our hike, which was very fun.
Last time Tevia had camped and I had thought it a better idea to get a hotel/cabin so we could be warmer, sleep better, and not have to worry about packing the tent. We could just get up and go. I liked my idea. Our cabin was small and in our cabin it was just Tevia and I and Millie. I didn't sleep much as I was excited and had some Dr. Pepper on the drive up. We woke up around 5 to get ready and met at the van at 5:30 AM and then Tevia's mom dropped us off at the trailhead. I'd say it was a brisk 45 or so - not nearly as cold as last time according to Tevia. This was nice as you want to pack as little as possible. When you know the temperature at the bottom will be 100+ degrees, packing down a coat doesn't sound fun. So I had just a long sleeve compression shirt and two leg sleeves which kept me warm enough for the first few miles before it began to warm up.
Tevia and I brought our Fitbits (gotta get those miles/steps!) and our phones with Endomondo on to track our distance. So every mile it would update us on how quickly we did the last mile. This was great at first as we knew the pace we wanted to go (not so great at the end). We had loaded up on carbs the day before which seemed to really help me. We had breakfast burritos for breakfast (while we hiked) and had plenty of water and other snacks; more than I ended up needing.
At the bottom we stopped for lunch at Phantom Ranch. This is not technically the half-way point for distance, but for time it basically is because after that it is all uphill. We had green chili burritos (made by Tevia's mom) which were great. I then changed my shirts and soaked my feet for a bit in the river. Most of the way down you follow a small river down the canyon until it reaches the Colorado. During lunch we chatted a bit with our friends from our church. We ran into a few others from our stake as well. The trail was pretty busy; busier than last time according to Tevia. At Phantom Ranch it was standing room only as all the tables were occupied.
We then began the hike up. It is only about 10 miles from Phantom Ranch, so mentally it seems that you are more than half-way (which you are looking at miles). But eventually that walking up the canyon starts to drag. I did pretty good until about 4.5 mile from the top. I didn't really have any sore muscles and no blisters. My feet felt good. But I was getting tired of drinking and eating. But I forced myself to keep doing it. We had brought some chocolate milks, which I think were lifesavers for me. At this point it really becomes a mental game. You have to avoid looking up or it really gets discouraging. Your feet don't want to go up anymore. My neck actually got a little sore just from looking down at the ground for so many hours.
Our goal was to get out before 12 hours. We left before 6, so the goal was to get out before 6. At about mile 3 to the end we stopped at one of the water holes and at this point I could smell the finish line. I got a good burst of energy and honestly could have really pounded it out quickly. But some of the others in our group weren't past their walls yet. In the end Tevia and I separated ahead of the group. We made it out a little before 5 PM. It was amazing to look back and see the Grand Canyon and know that you just walked that. You can't even see the buildings on the other side. There is a feeling of accomplishment and almost euphoria. People would sit on the top and clap as people made their way out. Some of these people were really struggling. And it was awesome to see the people cheer as they made their way out. For me, this was the coolest part. It touched my heart and made me think of a few things. Here are some of my musings along the long hike. I compared the hike to our lives.
1. The hike reminded me of life. The first part is great. It is fairly easy. It's downhill. People (parents/family) take care of you. You have time to look around and enjoy the beauty of the earth. At some point it starts to get hard. Whether we bring this on ourselves or if it is just part of life; it gets harder. Stress, jobs, heartache take place in our lives. It begins to feel more uphill. Sometimes the end seems so out of reach. It seems so easy to give up. Sometimes we just have to close our eyes and take the next step. We can't think of the future. We just have to "go".
At one point we passed an older gentleman who was quite a bit overweight. He was using his hiking poles and literally taking 12 inch steps every time he moved; slowly, but deliberately. I smiled as I passed him and asked if he was okay. He responded, with a smile, "I just keep saying to myself that in 2 hours I'll have a beer in my hand!" That was keeping him going. He had a goal. It was motivating. His reply gave me some motivation, too. I loved his reply and realized we all need goals to make it to the top. Whether we do our lives for our loved ones (spouse, kids, friends) or some other reason, if we don't have that in our lives, life kinda sucks. And many people, unfortunately, don't have something to live for. I am blessed that I do.
2. To continue on that theme, the other cool part was on the hike out there are a lot of switchbacks. This means you can see people that are 10 or 15 minutes ahead of you hiking on the trails above you. During the last few miles I would often look up and see two men wearing bright yellow and green shirts. It was our Stake President and his counselor. Just seeing them keep going was motivating to me. I knew they were in pain and feeling the same way I did; but they kept going. It was a literal moment where I could look up to church leaders and they provided me motivation and inspiration just by continuing to move one step at a time. As leaders we should remember this. We don't always have to inspire by being clever or wise or spiritual. We often can inspire by just doing.
3. My favorite part was seeing people get hugs and praise from family and friends as they reached the top. There was a church group in green shirts that had quite a large group of hikers. As each one reached the top they would hear shouts of joy and hugs and love. I couldn't help but imagine that this is what it will be like as we finish our lives. After Tevia and I reached the top we found her mom and then the three of us watched the trail just hoping to see the others in our group. When we did we yelled and waved and hoped to inspire them. I didn't think much about the pain in my legs or how I really wanted to just lay down; but I wanted to see them. I think when we reach that point we will likely have a similar reaction. Even if we don't have family or friends there; Jesus will be there to embrace us. He'll know what we've been through and he'll be so happy to see us finish. And I imagine that love and embrace will wash away all of our hard memories and trials. We'll forget how hard some of those moments were. And we'll have that sense of accomplishment. Some of us may get out sooner; some may take a long time - but we'll all make it out. And we'll look back and say "I did that! I finished the journey."
Like the trek we did this year (and a few years ago), I think it is great for us to do hard things. It changes our perception. This trip didn't just give me a sense of accomplishment and an opportunity to see one of the most beautiful creations on earth, but I did it with loved ones and in the end I emerged at the top holding the hand of God's greatest gift to me: my best friend and wife. And I hope that is how we can finish the grander journey we are both on, too.
Tuesday, September 22, 2015
Summer 2015
It has been a long time since I updated this blog. But I had some time and thought it would be good to post what happened this summer. It has been a great year. Time is passing quickly. We are very blessed.
- Jarek was ordained a priest a few weeks ago now that he is 16. How amazing for him and we are so blessed to have a son who is worthy of such an accomplishment. He is a great example.
- Trip to Peru. Tevia documented this quite well on her blog. We had a chance to go to Peru and visit Machu Picchu and Lima. We went with Tevia's parents and Risa and Jacob and Millie Webb. It was so much fun and amazing. I feel like I've been able to go to so many cool places.
- Job. My job is going well. I have a new client and it has given me the opportunity to build a new team and really find some amazing talent. I also was able to bring in an old friend who has been such an asset to us. I am enjoying waking up and being challenged and working with great people. I have had to travel a lot, but most of my trips are quick ones to California, so not too bad.
- Church. I was set apart as Elders Quorum President this summer. It has been a great opportunity. I feel like we have made a difference in the ward and my counselors are fantastic. They have to do a lot as I travel a lot. Our numbers have gone up; so that is good to see.
- Hiking. I have been hiking a lot to train for our upcoming hike of the Grand Canyon - Rim to Rim - this weekend. It has been hiking more with Tevia and enjoying the outdoors here in Phoenix. I love hiking. Even when I go by myself, I enjoy it.
- Family. The kids are all doing great. They had a very full summer and are back in school doing wonderful as usual. Great grades, great attitudes, and great people. Not sure how Tevia and I were blessed with such good kids. It must be Tevia.
That's about it for now. I'm excited for the fall with some more global travels and the Grand Canyon hike and our Mexico trip! Can't wait.
- Jarek was ordained a priest a few weeks ago now that he is 16. How amazing for him and we are so blessed to have a son who is worthy of such an accomplishment. He is a great example.
- Trip to Peru. Tevia documented this quite well on her blog. We had a chance to go to Peru and visit Machu Picchu and Lima. We went with Tevia's parents and Risa and Jacob and Millie Webb. It was so much fun and amazing. I feel like I've been able to go to so many cool places.
- Job. My job is going well. I have a new client and it has given me the opportunity to build a new team and really find some amazing talent. I also was able to bring in an old friend who has been such an asset to us. I am enjoying waking up and being challenged and working with great people. I have had to travel a lot, but most of my trips are quick ones to California, so not too bad.
- Church. I was set apart as Elders Quorum President this summer. It has been a great opportunity. I feel like we have made a difference in the ward and my counselors are fantastic. They have to do a lot as I travel a lot. Our numbers have gone up; so that is good to see.
- Hiking. I have been hiking a lot to train for our upcoming hike of the Grand Canyon - Rim to Rim - this weekend. It has been hiking more with Tevia and enjoying the outdoors here in Phoenix. I love hiking. Even when I go by myself, I enjoy it.
- Family. The kids are all doing great. They had a very full summer and are back in school doing wonderful as usual. Great grades, great attitudes, and great people. Not sure how Tevia and I were blessed with such good kids. It must be Tevia.
That's about it for now. I'm excited for the fall with some more global travels and the Grand Canyon hike and our Mexico trip! Can't wait.
Sunday, August 23, 2015
Prayer
I have been pondering about prayer for a few months now: the purpose, the prayer roll in the temple, and a few other deep doctrinal stuff. I wish I had a few hours with all my kids and I add Ralph to that list, to discuss this mesmerizing subject.
As I am going through books on our bookshelves, I ran across an old book titled "Prayer".I currently am glancing through and sifting out books- Do I really want to keep this one?
So I decided to do a read though of this particular book. It is full of interesting, inspiring and valuable information.
I have always prayed. I am grateful for parents who taught me to pray. I am grateful for the chance to learn to change who I pray to and how.
I want to thank Jarek for typing up my 1967 & 1968 diary. I love reading the subjects I use to pray for.
These entries are now on Google docs.
1967 was the year I tried to go to mass and receive communion every day. I was 13. I certainly had a spiritual pull. I would write in my diary what I prayed for that day.
As Jarek told me, the majority of the time it was for my father. Some were almost comical, 'all the sins in Cleveland'. Many were for Peace,
This good habit of praying daily has stayed with me my entire life. I never miss a morning or evening prayer. Dad and I do morning prayers together now also, which has been most rewarding.
I have received many answers to prayers, and have been generously rewarded for that continual communication.
I had and still have a great desire to know the mysteries of God, and He is continually teaching me.
There is nothing like that pure joy we get when we feel the spirit during a sincere prayer.
As I am going through books on our bookshelves, I ran across an old book titled "Prayer".I currently am glancing through and sifting out books- Do I really want to keep this one?
So I decided to do a read though of this particular book. It is full of interesting, inspiring and valuable information.
I have always prayed. I am grateful for parents who taught me to pray. I am grateful for the chance to learn to change who I pray to and how.
I want to thank Jarek for typing up my 1967 & 1968 diary. I love reading the subjects I use to pray for.
These entries are now on Google docs.
1967 was the year I tried to go to mass and receive communion every day. I was 13. I certainly had a spiritual pull. I would write in my diary what I prayed for that day.
As Jarek told me, the majority of the time it was for my father. Some were almost comical, 'all the sins in Cleveland'. Many were for Peace,
This good habit of praying daily has stayed with me my entire life. I never miss a morning or evening prayer. Dad and I do morning prayers together now also, which has been most rewarding.
I have received many answers to prayers, and have been generously rewarded for that continual communication.
I had and still have a great desire to know the mysteries of God, and He is continually teaching me.
There is nothing like that pure joy we get when we feel the spirit during a sincere prayer.
Sunday, June 21, 2015
Fathers Day 2015
On this Father's Day I can't help but be grateful for the opportunity to be a father. I love being a husband and father - and love my three boys. They bring me untold joy and keep me on the right path. In a day when fathers seem to be going extinct and society seems to hold them in less regard (even though evidence continues to point out the value of a father), I am grateful to receive the blessings of a father.
I never knew my biological father, but that void was replaced when my mother remarried and brought a father back into our home. I have never felt like I was cheated because my biological father was not there because of that.
So to all of you fathers that I know, thanks for being a dad. And to the fathers of my nieces and nephews, thank you for staying involved in their lives. And for those who may not be fathers, you can still have an impact on a child by showing them your love and guidance.
I never knew my biological father, but that void was replaced when my mother remarried and brought a father back into our home. I have never felt like I was cheated because my biological father was not there because of that.
So to all of you fathers that I know, thanks for being a dad. And to the fathers of my nieces and nephews, thank you for staying involved in their lives. And for those who may not be fathers, you can still have an impact on a child by showing them your love and guidance.
Saturday, June 20, 2015
Sixty-One
Just like everyone else says, I certainly don't feel 61. Sometime my body reminds me that it is that old, but my soul feels quite young.
I had Coney Island on my bucket list before we leave NY, and dad had Freedom Tower. Dad had one more personal choice day he had to take before July, so we combined it all to make one fabulous day. We took the train and subways so it would be less stressful for dad. I can report that we figured it all out by ourselves, and never got lost. I love the train ride down along the river. We took the subway to Freedom Tower, so about 2 hours to there. We had bought our tickets on line, and went up to the top.
Dad will say this was the best part of the day. They did a fabulous job on the structure, architecture, and technology. The elevator takes 48 seconds to go all the way to the top. It displays an amazing video all around you as you ascend. Pretty cool. My only critique was that there was no where to sit- in line or in a short movie or even at the top. I think they want people to move around quickly. It took an hour in all, but was a lot of standing still, so my back did start to complain. It was supposed to be cloudy, but I got birthday bonuses all day, and it was sunny and we could see forever.
We ate at the same exact pizza place where Bret's Family and I ate lat year. The pizza was fantastic. I took a pic and sent it to Tevia to see if she recognized the spot.
The only one sad thing about the entire day was when I went to take photos, my camera said low battery. I had to use my phone. I don't think it takes good pics, and I don't know if I can take them off of the phone. So I only took a few. Kathy and Tevia would have been in shock. There was so much to photograph on this memorable day.
Then we took the subway all the way down to Coney Ialand. Now, I had heard a lot of negative things about it when I told people I was going, but it wasn't so bad, First of all, school is not out yet here, so it was not that crowded. Secondly, it was not too awful hot.
We found some gelato, and I got cinnamon and dark chocolate. Yummy!
We walked down to the beach and waded. It was sunny by then, and we wished we had our swim suits on. The beach we larger than we expected, and we saw a few crabs in the water. It cooked us and we relaxed on the sand for awhile until the sun felt too hot.
We then rode the famous carousal. It is a bit different than most. It does not keep going around, but stops, and your cart swings and glides along a track about 5 ft long. Kinda fun. It was pretty to see the entire park, and the ocean. I loved it.
I would say that if it was really hot and sunny, and crowded, the place would not have been so fun.
It is a small, Brooklyn area type of place, noting like Cedar Point, but fun to see.
We were giving points when we saw extraordinary things, like an eagle- which I saw fly right past my window as soon as we got on the train.
That was fun.
I always brings singles to give to people performing in the subway. The first guy was a violinist. He was really good and came onto our subway car.
Dad was reading all the signs in the subway, and inside there was a sign saying,"the poles are for your protection and safety, and not for performances." He kind of just brushed it off, Well, our next performance was a young black guy, about 16, who did an act on the poles! He was hinging upside down, jumping around, dancing to crazy music, and doing a hat and shoe trick. It was pretty entertaining.
We left home at 8, and got home at 7, shorter time than we had expected. I wore my knee brace all day, and it did good until the last hour or so.
From Coney Island to our house via train and subway,= 3 hours. Not bad, It was relaxing.
A very good birthday!
I had Coney Island on my bucket list before we leave NY, and dad had Freedom Tower. Dad had one more personal choice day he had to take before July, so we combined it all to make one fabulous day. We took the train and subways so it would be less stressful for dad. I can report that we figured it all out by ourselves, and never got lost. I love the train ride down along the river. We took the subway to Freedom Tower, so about 2 hours to there. We had bought our tickets on line, and went up to the top.
Dad will say this was the best part of the day. They did a fabulous job on the structure, architecture, and technology. The elevator takes 48 seconds to go all the way to the top. It displays an amazing video all around you as you ascend. Pretty cool. My only critique was that there was no where to sit- in line or in a short movie or even at the top. I think they want people to move around quickly. It took an hour in all, but was a lot of standing still, so my back did start to complain. It was supposed to be cloudy, but I got birthday bonuses all day, and it was sunny and we could see forever.
We ate at the same exact pizza place where Bret's Family and I ate lat year. The pizza was fantastic. I took a pic and sent it to Tevia to see if she recognized the spot.
The only one sad thing about the entire day was when I went to take photos, my camera said low battery. I had to use my phone. I don't think it takes good pics, and I don't know if I can take them off of the phone. So I only took a few. Kathy and Tevia would have been in shock. There was so much to photograph on this memorable day.
Then we took the subway all the way down to Coney Ialand. Now, I had heard a lot of negative things about it when I told people I was going, but it wasn't so bad, First of all, school is not out yet here, so it was not that crowded. Secondly, it was not too awful hot.
We found some gelato, and I got cinnamon and dark chocolate. Yummy!
We walked down to the beach and waded. It was sunny by then, and we wished we had our swim suits on. The beach we larger than we expected, and we saw a few crabs in the water. It cooked us and we relaxed on the sand for awhile until the sun felt too hot.
We then rode the famous carousal. It is a bit different than most. It does not keep going around, but stops, and your cart swings and glides along a track about 5 ft long. Kinda fun. It was pretty to see the entire park, and the ocean. I loved it.
I would say that if it was really hot and sunny, and crowded, the place would not have been so fun.
It is a small, Brooklyn area type of place, noting like Cedar Point, but fun to see.
We were giving points when we saw extraordinary things, like an eagle- which I saw fly right past my window as soon as we got on the train.
That was fun.
I always brings singles to give to people performing in the subway. The first guy was a violinist. He was really good and came onto our subway car.
Dad was reading all the signs in the subway, and inside there was a sign saying,"the poles are for your protection and safety, and not for performances." He kind of just brushed it off, Well, our next performance was a young black guy, about 16, who did an act on the poles! He was hinging upside down, jumping around, dancing to crazy music, and doing a hat and shoe trick. It was pretty entertaining.
We left home at 8, and got home at 7, shorter time than we had expected. I wore my knee brace all day, and it did good until the last hour or so.
From Coney Island to our house via train and subway,= 3 hours. Not bad, It was relaxing.
A very good birthday!
Monday, June 08, 2015
Birthday 2015
On my birthday this year I woke up early to head off to basketball like I do so many mornings over the past decade. I bought myself a new basketball on Saturday as a birthday present to me since my older one was starting to peel and was needing a replacement. We had 20 people show up this morning - maybe they heard it was my birthday. If so, they should have known I would have rather had less people show up - 10 -12 is ideal. =)
Last year I turned 40. It was hard to believe as in my mind that seems so old, but in reality I don't feel very old. I have been blessed with great health and a body that continues to provide me the ability to do the active things I love like basketball, tennis, hiking and more. In the last year I was able to travel to Israel, Ireland, New York, Mexico and Utah and a few other places. For the most part it was a healthy year. I don't recall being sick once - except for when I got a kidney stone (not sure if that counts as being sick, but I do recall that it wasn't fun!).
I am fortunate to be married to the same woman I fell in love with nearly 20 years ago. I've almost been with her half of my years on earth. What a blessing. She still is beautiful and such a wonderful mother. She has raised three amazing boys who act as examples to me and bring me joy every day. They are turning into men, which is difficult to watch and scary as I know soon they will venture into the big world. But they will be ready.
As I sit here and ponder why I have been blessed so much and think about this world and its purpose in our lives, I can't help but smile and be content. Just two years ago I was struggling with a job that I did not enjoy and found little satisfaction in. And now I have a job that brings me happiness and fulfillment. As I try hard to fill the role of Elders Quorum President, my biggest inspiration is helping the men in our ward feel that we should be here for each other. That happiness comes from within - and God loves us and we should love each other. I can see in people's eyes that there is doubt there; and doubt brings pain and fear.
Birthdays are so fun when you are young and so passing as you get old. I tend to focus on smaller things now; things that will bring just small bits of joy. Like buying strawberry nesquik this morning since that is what sounded good. Tonight we'll have Dairy Queen cake: still my favorite birthday treat.
Not long ago, most men in the world were lucky to live much longer than 40. Today, unless something unexpected happens, I could easily expect to live another 40 years. It seems incredible. I may not have even lived half my life. But that is great. I wouldn't mind filling the next 40 years with trips to Mexico, Lake Powell, and have the opportunity to see more of this beautiful earth God has created for us.
If I have any wisdom to pass on, it is to live life each day at a time. Our two older boys have kinda forced this perspective onto us. And truly it has been a blessing.
Last year I turned 40. It was hard to believe as in my mind that seems so old, but in reality I don't feel very old. I have been blessed with great health and a body that continues to provide me the ability to do the active things I love like basketball, tennis, hiking and more. In the last year I was able to travel to Israel, Ireland, New York, Mexico and Utah and a few other places. For the most part it was a healthy year. I don't recall being sick once - except for when I got a kidney stone (not sure if that counts as being sick, but I do recall that it wasn't fun!).
I am fortunate to be married to the same woman I fell in love with nearly 20 years ago. I've almost been with her half of my years on earth. What a blessing. She still is beautiful and such a wonderful mother. She has raised three amazing boys who act as examples to me and bring me joy every day. They are turning into men, which is difficult to watch and scary as I know soon they will venture into the big world. But they will be ready.
As I sit here and ponder why I have been blessed so much and think about this world and its purpose in our lives, I can't help but smile and be content. Just two years ago I was struggling with a job that I did not enjoy and found little satisfaction in. And now I have a job that brings me happiness and fulfillment. As I try hard to fill the role of Elders Quorum President, my biggest inspiration is helping the men in our ward feel that we should be here for each other. That happiness comes from within - and God loves us and we should love each other. I can see in people's eyes that there is doubt there; and doubt brings pain and fear.
Birthdays are so fun when you are young and so passing as you get old. I tend to focus on smaller things now; things that will bring just small bits of joy. Like buying strawberry nesquik this morning since that is what sounded good. Tonight we'll have Dairy Queen cake: still my favorite birthday treat.
Not long ago, most men in the world were lucky to live much longer than 40. Today, unless something unexpected happens, I could easily expect to live another 40 years. It seems incredible. I may not have even lived half my life. But that is great. I wouldn't mind filling the next 40 years with trips to Mexico, Lake Powell, and have the opportunity to see more of this beautiful earth God has created for us.
If I have any wisdom to pass on, it is to live life each day at a time. Our two older boys have kinda forced this perspective onto us. And truly it has been a blessing.
Tuesday, May 19, 2015
My front porch
One of the things I have enjoyed the most about our home here in Poughkeepsie is our front porch.
I have many great memories from the view of my front porch: countless whiffle ball games, soccer, lawn darts, running through the sprinkler, croquet, bocce ball, fireworks, storms, etc.
As spring hit this year after such a long, hard winter, I realized again how beautiful the view from our front porch is. Tom said it several times while here. We were so lucky and blessed to have such a great front and back yard for you kids to play in.
Today I sat and had my morning yogurt and granola. The bees were buzzing, (and yes, Tom also noticed we keep our tennis rackets on all our porches), the flowers are in bloom and giving off a great scent, hummingbirds visiting, and such a sweet breeze blowing.
I can picture Tevia sitting on the front steps while her kids played with water. Kathy's kids playing on the porch and swinging. Jarek cutting the lawn. Jacob practicing pitching with dad, prom photos, etc. I would take the time to post pics, but they are in so many different places it would take a whole day.
Then there were the great Halloweens, Christmas lights, Easter egg hunts.
Not to mention all the animals- deer eating my front bushes, squirrels stealing my small pumpkins, turkeys crossing the yard.
Here is a recent one.
I am grateful for such wonderful memories. We surely have used this front yard happily and fully.
I found a few more. The older ones are still in photo books.
(Who wants a good photo scanning-organizing project? Will pay top dollar)
The last one is a movie about the trapped raccoon.
Yep, many memories were made here in this front yard. Love love love my front porch!
I have many great memories from the view of my front porch: countless whiffle ball games, soccer, lawn darts, running through the sprinkler, croquet, bocce ball, fireworks, storms, etc.
As spring hit this year after such a long, hard winter, I realized again how beautiful the view from our front porch is. Tom said it several times while here. We were so lucky and blessed to have such a great front and back yard for you kids to play in.
Today I sat and had my morning yogurt and granola. The bees were buzzing, (and yes, Tom also noticed we keep our tennis rackets on all our porches), the flowers are in bloom and giving off a great scent, hummingbirds visiting, and such a sweet breeze blowing.
I can picture Tevia sitting on the front steps while her kids played with water. Kathy's kids playing on the porch and swinging. Jarek cutting the lawn. Jacob practicing pitching with dad, prom photos, etc. I would take the time to post pics, but they are in so many different places it would take a whole day.
Then there were the great Halloweens, Christmas lights, Easter egg hunts.
Not to mention all the animals- deer eating my front bushes, squirrels stealing my small pumpkins, turkeys crossing the yard.
Here is a recent one.
I am grateful for such wonderful memories. We surely have used this front yard happily and fully.
I found a few more. The older ones are still in photo books.
(Who wants a good photo scanning-organizing project? Will pay top dollar)
The last one is a movie about the trapped raccoon.
Yep, many memories were made here in this front yard. Love love love my front porch!
Sunday, February 15, 2015
Jerusalem 2015
I had to come to Israel for my business and decided to take a small detour to see Jerusalem on the weekend. I had suggested Tevia come along as well as this was something we have always wanted to do and to take advantage of one ticket paid for by my company. It is a long flight to Tel Aviv, but we arrived on Thursday afternoon and rented a car and drove out to Jerusalem after landing. It was about an hour drive and we didn't have any issues finding our hotel. We had chosen a hotel based on tripadvisor and one that was cheap but had great reviews. It was very cute and quaint and in a quite residential neighborhood.
One thing we hadn't expected was it to be so cold. It was only in the 50s upon arrival and quite windy. We had been on a plane for quite some time and were a little hungry so we asked the hotel where to go. He suggested a place down the road about a mile that used to be a train station. We walked down there in the cold (at this point it was in the 40s and dark) and bundled up. The place was very cool and we found a little stand that was making falafel and other food. We ordered some food and it was amazing. It was a great start to our trip.
Unfortunately the night wasn't as good. Our room was by a bunch of teenage girls who pretty much partied all night. I think they finally settled down around 1 or 2. I didn't get much sleep. I even went out and asked them to be quiet at one point. With little sleep I was frustrated and in the morning we went down for breakfast. I complained and they apologized and assured me they were leaving that day and it would be quiet that night. Breakfast was amazing. Simple and flavorful.
We had arranged a private tour with a guy named Marty for a few hours. We met him at our hotel at 8:30 and drove up to the Old City to look around. He was great to have around. With so little time in the city, we thought it worth paying for a guide and I think it was worth it. I've wanted for years to go to Jerusalem, so we were excited to start. It was cold and windy, but we were up for it.
I think we all have preconceived notions of what something is going to be like. I definitely had an idea in my mind what Jerusalem would be like. I mean, this is the religious center of several large religions and something I'd read about for my entire life. My first impressions were how old and cool the old city looks. My second impression was how it no longer really feels like a religious spot, but more of a commercial spot with tons of markets and restaurants, etc. This make sense as people still live in the old city, but it was a little disappointing. The city is split into 4 quarters: Christian, Jewish, Muslim, and Armenian. I frankly had never even heard of the Armenian religion.
There were several things we told our guide we wanted to see. We entered Jaffa Gate (there are 8 gates into the Old City, one of which is sealed: the Easter Gate or Mercy Gate, where Jesus will return). We traversed the city learning about the history and seeing the different levels and sections going back for thousands of years. It is pretty amazing to think you are standing in a spot that not only Jesus stood, but Solomon and David.
We went to the Western (or Wailing) Wall to see the people praying there. This wall is what is left from the original temple (now where the Dome of the Rock stands). It is pretty much the only spot the Jews can go near the old temple site. They had three sections: one where only men can go, one for women, and a newer spot further down for mixed groups. Our tour guide was Jewish and told us a lot of the discussions about feminism within Judaism. It was very interesting. We exited Dung Gate and looked over the Kidron valley and the City of David. It was cool to hear the history of the area. From there we walked up to the Garden of Gethsemane. Like all religious spots, there is a church here. This one was a Catholic church just put up a hundred years ago or so. I really had expected this part to be a very spiritual experience. This was the location of the Atonement. But I found it very difficult to be too moved when you are surrounded by so many tourists. The garden is fenced off. There really isn't a place to sit and reflect as they move you through quickly. It was disappointing. Very cool, but disappointing. This was probably the them of the day for me. It is hard to feel spiritual (for me) when you feel like you are in a line at Disneyland.
It was cool to see the Eastern Gate, which is now walled up (by the Muslims centuries ago). This is the gate Christians believe Christ will return and Jews believe the Messiah will come. The Muslims built a cemetery in front of it to spite the Jews since some priests aren't allowed in cemeteries, so this would keep the Messiah from coming.
We reentered the old city through the Lion's gate (or Stephen's gate). It was Friday so the Muslim holy day and it was packed with Muslims going to the mosque to worship. No non-Muslims are allowed to enter that area (usually) so as we approached the Israeli police stopped us.
From here we took a quick side trip to the Pool of Bethesda. This is the site where Christ cured the man who couldn't get to the pool. This area required an entrance fee but was not very crowded. This was one of my favorite spots of the day. There is a church here (Roman Catholic again) and our guide suggested we enter and sing as the accoustics were awesome. I sang in the empty chapel and it was pretty cool. You can see the pool and it was cool later to see this scene in the LDS bible videos as it looks just like it.
We then began the Via Dolorosa which is the traditional route Christ took after being scourged and given his cross. It has several stations you follow, each one a spot Christ allegedly stopped. Many of these are not in the New Testament or even in any scripture, so likely people just made some of them up. They are split at different churches along the way (from different denominations). These include where Christ was scourged, where he got the cross, where he fell, where Simon took the cross, where he stopped and rested his head and finally ends up at the site of his crucifixion and burial. These last two are in the Church of the Holy Sepuchre. This church is split between several churches including the Greek Orthodox, Armenian, Catholic and others. This is very odd as a Christian, to have a church be split between several churches. There are lines to see the place where the cross was in Calvary and then further down is a monument to where he was buried (different from the Garden Tomb where several Protestant churches believe Christ was buried). So here you have thousands of Christians lining up to go through different church stations mixed with many different Christian religions. This was fascinating if not a little off-putting. We did not stand in line to touch the place of the cross or touch the anointing stone (where Christ's body was anointed) or go into the tomb (replica) as the lines were so long and who knows if this is really where these things took place. But it was interesting seeing all these people, some very overcome as they touched these spots and thought about their Savior.
This was the end of our tour and we then ate lunch in the Old City (Shawarma!). It started to get cooler and rainy, so we headed back to the hotel for a nap and relaxation. It was the beginning of the sabbath at sundown, so everything was closed. To eat we just went to a shop (likely ran by Muslims as it was open) and grabbed some crackers and cheese and chocolate milk. I slept great that night.
Saturday (the sabbath) we got up and got dressed and checked out of our hotel and headed to BYU Jerusalem for church. Sacrament is held on Saturday. It is located on the Mount of Olives. We arrived and were asked by the guard if we were LDS, which we affirmed, and then were allowed in. We explored the gardens briefly before entering. The view is AMAZING. You can see the whole Old City with the Dome of the Rock, the Church of the Holy Sepulchre, etc. We entered the building and the chapel faces west (towards the old city) with huge windows so you can see the whole landscape. It was moving just to sit and see the view. We talked to several people as we awaited church to start. The meeting was one of the most touching services I've ever been in. It was amazing to take the sacrament as you see where Christ held the last supper and was crucified and resurrected. The speakers were fantastic and there was a musical number that was perhaps the best I've ever heard. It was truly a spiritual experience for me and was a stark contrast to how I had felt the day before. I wanted so bad to have my children experience this. As I looked at the East Gate, knowing that this is where Jesus would return triumphant into the city, my testimony was strengthened.
We had planned on going to the Dead Sea that afternoon before heading to Tel Aviv as the workweek starts on Sunday and I had meetings. But I changed my mind in church and decided to stay. I wanted to visit the Garden Tomb and then go through the Old City again. The weather was a little better and I am glad we changed our plans. The Garden Tomb was mostly empty when we went and I enjoyed this feeling. We then entered the old city through the Damascus Gate and ate lunch at a great place in the Muslim quarter. We then went back to the Church of the Holy Sepulchre again as I wanted to spend a little more time there. We finished doing the Ramparts walk where you literally walk the walls surrounding Jerusalem (old city). We then got in our car and headed to Tel Aviv.
To summarize, Jerusalem was an amazing visit. But by far the most spiritual experience was sitting in the chapel at BYU and seeing the place where Jesus walked as we renewed our covenants with him. I think that had we had a chance to go up to Galilee, where it is less touristy and more open for reflection, etc., we would have had more of a spiritual experience there. But it was a once in a lifetime opportunity to come and see this holy city, where three religions claim it as a place of holy worship. Three religions that over thousands of years have fought, reclaimed, and lost the city. Now it is shared by all as a sort of compromise. It is not a big city and was even smaller in the days of Solomon and David. Here sat the Holy of Holies and now the Dome of the Rock and just down the way the burial and ressurection of Jesus. The center of the religious universe on a small hill in the middle of the desert. It was a great experience.
One thing we hadn't expected was it to be so cold. It was only in the 50s upon arrival and quite windy. We had been on a plane for quite some time and were a little hungry so we asked the hotel where to go. He suggested a place down the road about a mile that used to be a train station. We walked down there in the cold (at this point it was in the 40s and dark) and bundled up. The place was very cool and we found a little stand that was making falafel and other food. We ordered some food and it was amazing. It was a great start to our trip.
Unfortunately the night wasn't as good. Our room was by a bunch of teenage girls who pretty much partied all night. I think they finally settled down around 1 or 2. I didn't get much sleep. I even went out and asked them to be quiet at one point. With little sleep I was frustrated and in the morning we went down for breakfast. I complained and they apologized and assured me they were leaving that day and it would be quiet that night. Breakfast was amazing. Simple and flavorful.
We had arranged a private tour with a guy named Marty for a few hours. We met him at our hotel at 8:30 and drove up to the Old City to look around. He was great to have around. With so little time in the city, we thought it worth paying for a guide and I think it was worth it. I've wanted for years to go to Jerusalem, so we were excited to start. It was cold and windy, but we were up for it.
I think we all have preconceived notions of what something is going to be like. I definitely had an idea in my mind what Jerusalem would be like. I mean, this is the religious center of several large religions and something I'd read about for my entire life. My first impressions were how old and cool the old city looks. My second impression was how it no longer really feels like a religious spot, but more of a commercial spot with tons of markets and restaurants, etc. This make sense as people still live in the old city, but it was a little disappointing. The city is split into 4 quarters: Christian, Jewish, Muslim, and Armenian. I frankly had never even heard of the Armenian religion.
There were several things we told our guide we wanted to see. We entered Jaffa Gate (there are 8 gates into the Old City, one of which is sealed: the Easter Gate or Mercy Gate, where Jesus will return). We traversed the city learning about the history and seeing the different levels and sections going back for thousands of years. It is pretty amazing to think you are standing in a spot that not only Jesus stood, but Solomon and David.
We went to the Western (or Wailing) Wall to see the people praying there. This wall is what is left from the original temple (now where the Dome of the Rock stands). It is pretty much the only spot the Jews can go near the old temple site. They had three sections: one where only men can go, one for women, and a newer spot further down for mixed groups. Our tour guide was Jewish and told us a lot of the discussions about feminism within Judaism. It was very interesting. We exited Dung Gate and looked over the Kidron valley and the City of David. It was cool to hear the history of the area. From there we walked up to the Garden of Gethsemane. Like all religious spots, there is a church here. This one was a Catholic church just put up a hundred years ago or so. I really had expected this part to be a very spiritual experience. This was the location of the Atonement. But I found it very difficult to be too moved when you are surrounded by so many tourists. The garden is fenced off. There really isn't a place to sit and reflect as they move you through quickly. It was disappointing. Very cool, but disappointing. This was probably the them of the day for me. It is hard to feel spiritual (for me) when you feel like you are in a line at Disneyland.
It was cool to see the Eastern Gate, which is now walled up (by the Muslims centuries ago). This is the gate Christians believe Christ will return and Jews believe the Messiah will come. The Muslims built a cemetery in front of it to spite the Jews since some priests aren't allowed in cemeteries, so this would keep the Messiah from coming.
We reentered the old city through the Lion's gate (or Stephen's gate). It was Friday so the Muslim holy day and it was packed with Muslims going to the mosque to worship. No non-Muslims are allowed to enter that area (usually) so as we approached the Israeli police stopped us.
From here we took a quick side trip to the Pool of Bethesda. This is the site where Christ cured the man who couldn't get to the pool. This area required an entrance fee but was not very crowded. This was one of my favorite spots of the day. There is a church here (Roman Catholic again) and our guide suggested we enter and sing as the accoustics were awesome. I sang in the empty chapel and it was pretty cool. You can see the pool and it was cool later to see this scene in the LDS bible videos as it looks just like it.
We then began the Via Dolorosa which is the traditional route Christ took after being scourged and given his cross. It has several stations you follow, each one a spot Christ allegedly stopped. Many of these are not in the New Testament or even in any scripture, so likely people just made some of them up. They are split at different churches along the way (from different denominations). These include where Christ was scourged, where he got the cross, where he fell, where Simon took the cross, where he stopped and rested his head and finally ends up at the site of his crucifixion and burial. These last two are in the Church of the Holy Sepuchre. This church is split between several churches including the Greek Orthodox, Armenian, Catholic and others. This is very odd as a Christian, to have a church be split between several churches. There are lines to see the place where the cross was in Calvary and then further down is a monument to where he was buried (different from the Garden Tomb where several Protestant churches believe Christ was buried). So here you have thousands of Christians lining up to go through different church stations mixed with many different Christian religions. This was fascinating if not a little off-putting. We did not stand in line to touch the place of the cross or touch the anointing stone (where Christ's body was anointed) or go into the tomb (replica) as the lines were so long and who knows if this is really where these things took place. But it was interesting seeing all these people, some very overcome as they touched these spots and thought about their Savior.
This was the end of our tour and we then ate lunch in the Old City (Shawarma!). It started to get cooler and rainy, so we headed back to the hotel for a nap and relaxation. It was the beginning of the sabbath at sundown, so everything was closed. To eat we just went to a shop (likely ran by Muslims as it was open) and grabbed some crackers and cheese and chocolate milk. I slept great that night.
Saturday (the sabbath) we got up and got dressed and checked out of our hotel and headed to BYU Jerusalem for church. Sacrament is held on Saturday. It is located on the Mount of Olives. We arrived and were asked by the guard if we were LDS, which we affirmed, and then were allowed in. We explored the gardens briefly before entering. The view is AMAZING. You can see the whole Old City with the Dome of the Rock, the Church of the Holy Sepulchre, etc. We entered the building and the chapel faces west (towards the old city) with huge windows so you can see the whole landscape. It was moving just to sit and see the view. We talked to several people as we awaited church to start. The meeting was one of the most touching services I've ever been in. It was amazing to take the sacrament as you see where Christ held the last supper and was crucified and resurrected. The speakers were fantastic and there was a musical number that was perhaps the best I've ever heard. It was truly a spiritual experience for me and was a stark contrast to how I had felt the day before. I wanted so bad to have my children experience this. As I looked at the East Gate, knowing that this is where Jesus would return triumphant into the city, my testimony was strengthened.
We had planned on going to the Dead Sea that afternoon before heading to Tel Aviv as the workweek starts on Sunday and I had meetings. But I changed my mind in church and decided to stay. I wanted to visit the Garden Tomb and then go through the Old City again. The weather was a little better and I am glad we changed our plans. The Garden Tomb was mostly empty when we went and I enjoyed this feeling. We then entered the old city through the Damascus Gate and ate lunch at a great place in the Muslim quarter. We then went back to the Church of the Holy Sepulchre again as I wanted to spend a little more time there. We finished doing the Ramparts walk where you literally walk the walls surrounding Jerusalem (old city). We then got in our car and headed to Tel Aviv.
To summarize, Jerusalem was an amazing visit. But by far the most spiritual experience was sitting in the chapel at BYU and seeing the place where Jesus walked as we renewed our covenants with him. I think that had we had a chance to go up to Galilee, where it is less touristy and more open for reflection, etc., we would have had more of a spiritual experience there. But it was a once in a lifetime opportunity to come and see this holy city, where three religions claim it as a place of holy worship. Three religions that over thousands of years have fought, reclaimed, and lost the city. Now it is shared by all as a sort of compromise. It is not a big city and was even smaller in the days of Solomon and David. Here sat the Holy of Holies and now the Dome of the Rock and just down the way the burial and ressurection of Jesus. The center of the religious universe on a small hill in the middle of the desert. It was a great experience.
Saturday, February 07, 2015
Daisy 2004 - 2015
Jacob
Daisy didn't always live with us. I brought Daisy home from the airport after my Mom felt she would be happier with our family, which included small children and less travel time away. Also, my wife had fallen in love with Daisy during a summer visit.
I believe she was just over eleven years old. Daisy stayed with us almost five years of that eleven. She was a very obedient dog and let all four of our children humiliate, torment, wrestle and even ride her without the slightest hint of aggression. If dog is man's best friend, Daisy was anything's best friend that would give her attention.
Daisy's greatest weakness was also my favorite strength. Daisy loved food, almost everything. Considering four children it is amazing how clean our floors have been through the years. Unfortunately, Daisy was very good and begging kids to donate large portions of their plates before they were finished. And if Speed had forgotten to feed Daisy in the morning, this sometimes led to the bravado of a drive by snatch of a full sandwich, hot dog or better. I always found this humorous, but Cari would force me to drag Daisy in the garage as a punishment for her crimes. This was silly though, because both Daisy and I knew that no punishment was too great for even the attempt at a freshly grilled Nathan's hot dog.
Daisy shed... a lot. This dog, especially the last couple years would leave clefts of hair behind. We probably could have started a gross textile industry from her alone. We have went through 3 industrial vacuums to prove it.
Water and Daisy do not mix. It won't be heaven for Daisy unless she is assured no baths. I was always worried the neighbors would call the cops when I gave Daisy a bath. Man she would holler. You have never heard anything like it. I'm serious.
I will miss my second beagle. I will miss waking up with a nightmare unsure of reality only to be comforted by Daisy's calm demeanor indicating there is nothing amiss in the house. Daisy took her role of guard dog very seriously and even desperately tried to get up and howl when the neighbor came by a few hours before passing.
The children got to say goodbye to Daisy. I was on my mission when Bugle (my first beagle) died. I had always lacked closure from her death and me being away. It was comforting to hold Daisy tonight as she left this world.
Cari
I'm gonna miss that smelly old girl. You'd think I wouldn't be so sad about the passing of a creature that could get me so annoyed but (what do you know) Jacob was right about how hard Daisy's passing would be for me.
Having her in our home the last (almost) five years has brought me lots of happiness, funny moments, and annoyance. I certainly didn't know what I was getting into when we got her - the shedding, the howling, the food stealing, the smell. And I know that I only got a taste of having a dog since she was mature and so well trained when she came to us. I was also unaware of the comfort of having another presence around, even if she didn't say much.
Daisy was the best dog I could have imagined for our young kids. She was always so gentle and patient with them. Except for maybe when she had a ham bone, but hey - it was a ham bone. I was really glad that the kids got to say good-bye to her tonight before they went to bed. I'm also glad for the time I got to spend sitting with her and petting her the last couple of days when we realized her time was short.
I'm sure it will take some time before I stop checking the house to make sure she's here when the front door gets left open and checking for her tail before I move my office chair. Daisy, I'll miss you.
Daisy didn't always live with us. I brought Daisy home from the airport after my Mom felt she would be happier with our family, which included small children and less travel time away. Also, my wife had fallen in love with Daisy during a summer visit.
I believe she was just over eleven years old. Daisy stayed with us almost five years of that eleven. She was a very obedient dog and let all four of our children humiliate, torment, wrestle and even ride her without the slightest hint of aggression. If dog is man's best friend, Daisy was anything's best friend that would give her attention.
Daisy's greatest weakness was also my favorite strength. Daisy loved food, almost everything. Considering four children it is amazing how clean our floors have been through the years. Unfortunately, Daisy was very good and begging kids to donate large portions of their plates before they were finished. And if Speed had forgotten to feed Daisy in the morning, this sometimes led to the bravado of a drive by snatch of a full sandwich, hot dog or better. I always found this humorous, but Cari would force me to drag Daisy in the garage as a punishment for her crimes. This was silly though, because both Daisy and I knew that no punishment was too great for even the attempt at a freshly grilled Nathan's hot dog.
Daisy shed... a lot. This dog, especially the last couple years would leave clefts of hair behind. We probably could have started a gross textile industry from her alone. We have went through 3 industrial vacuums to prove it.
Water and Daisy do not mix. It won't be heaven for Daisy unless she is assured no baths. I was always worried the neighbors would call the cops when I gave Daisy a bath. Man she would holler. You have never heard anything like it. I'm serious.
I will miss my second beagle. I will miss waking up with a nightmare unsure of reality only to be comforted by Daisy's calm demeanor indicating there is nothing amiss in the house. Daisy took her role of guard dog very seriously and even desperately tried to get up and howl when the neighbor came by a few hours before passing.
The children got to say goodbye to Daisy. I was on my mission when Bugle (my first beagle) died. I had always lacked closure from her death and me being away. It was comforting to hold Daisy tonight as she left this world.
Cari
I'm gonna miss that smelly old girl. You'd think I wouldn't be so sad about the passing of a creature that could get me so annoyed but (what do you know) Jacob was right about how hard Daisy's passing would be for me.
Having her in our home the last (almost) five years has brought me lots of happiness, funny moments, and annoyance. I certainly didn't know what I was getting into when we got her - the shedding, the howling, the food stealing, the smell. And I know that I only got a taste of having a dog since she was mature and so well trained when she came to us. I was also unaware of the comfort of having another presence around, even if she didn't say much.
Daisy was the best dog I could have imagined for our young kids. She was always so gentle and patient with them. Except for maybe when she had a ham bone, but hey - it was a ham bone. I was really glad that the kids got to say good-bye to her tonight before they went to bed. I'm also glad for the time I got to spend sitting with her and petting her the last couple of days when we realized her time was short.
I'm sure it will take some time before I stop checking the house to make sure she's here when the front door gets left open and checking for her tail before I move my office chair. Daisy, I'll miss you.
Saturday, January 03, 2015
Cari's 2014 Book Bingo
A book with more than 500 pages: Clockwork Princess
A forgotten Classic: Daddy-Long-Legs
A book that became a movie: City of Bones
A book published this year (2014) Sand Omnibus
A book with a Number in its title: The Wright 3
A book written by someone under thirty: The Tiger's Wife
A book with non-human characters: The One and Only Ivan
A funny book: Dad Is Fat
A book by a female author: Twenties Girl
A book with a mystery: Moon Over Manifest
A book with a single word title: Dust
A book of short stories: Philip K. Dick Megapack
A book set on a different continent: Remember Me?
A book of Non-fiction: Reality Is Broken
The first book by a favorite author: Molly Fyde and the Parsona Rescue
A book you heard about online: Eden
A best-selling book: Inferno
A book based on a true story: The Prize Winner of Defiance, Ohio
A book at the bottom of your to be read pile: The Voyages of Dr. Dolittle
A book your friend loves: The Healer's Apprentice
A book that scares you: The Lost World
A book that is more than ten years old: Jurassic Park
The Second book in a series: City of Ashes
A book with a blue cover: The Atlantis Plague
I was going to tackle the YA board after I finished this one but I didn't think I would make much progress in the 21 minutes I had left in 2014 after I finished this board. :)
A forgotten Classic: Daddy-Long-Legs
A book that became a movie: City of Bones
A book published this year (2014) Sand Omnibus
A book with a Number in its title: The Wright 3
A book written by someone under thirty: The Tiger's Wife
A book with non-human characters: The One and Only Ivan
A funny book: Dad Is Fat
A book by a female author: Twenties Girl
A book with a mystery: Moon Over Manifest
A book with a single word title: Dust
A book of short stories: Philip K. Dick Megapack
A book set on a different continent: Remember Me?
A book of Non-fiction: Reality Is Broken
The first book by a favorite author: Molly Fyde and the Parsona Rescue
A book you heard about online: Eden
A best-selling book: Inferno
A book based on a true story: The Prize Winner of Defiance, Ohio
A book at the bottom of your to be read pile: The Voyages of Dr. Dolittle
A book your friend loves: The Healer's Apprentice
A book that scares you: The Lost World
A book that is more than ten years old: Jurassic Park
The Second book in a series: City of Ashes
A book with a blue cover: The Atlantis Plague
I was going to tackle the YA board after I finished this one but I didn't think I would make much progress in the 21 minutes I had left in 2014 after I finished this board. :)
Thursday, January 01, 2015
Going creative with 2015 goals this year
I am tired of the same old things for my goals. I usually do make some, but I make too many some years. The times when I am most specific, like, learn how to make chicken soup, I have done better.
I thoroughly enjoyed the bingo book card, as I read things I usually do not choose.
I took a class last year, lost 5 lbs, sewed more, did something I had never done before- kayaking, and didn't make it to a new temple.
This year, I am looking to fill different slots. Sometimes I list as goals: something physical, mental, social, spiritual, hard, etc.
This year- here is are my slots. I just need specific goals to fill in to each one.
Something:
I thoroughly enjoyed the bingo book card, as I read things I usually do not choose.
I took a class last year, lost 5 lbs, sewed more, did something I had never done before- kayaking, and didn't make it to a new temple.
This year, I am looking to fill different slots. Sometimes I list as goals: something physical, mental, social, spiritual, hard, etc.
This year- here is are my slots. I just need specific goals to fill in to each one.
Something:
- creative
- educational- take another class, or BYU Ed week
- inspiring
- funny
- energizing- joined the gym, go twice a week, Walk 2 X a week, yoga 3X
- healthy- giving up m&m's for a month, and cutting diet coke to 1 a week
- charitable-
- peaceful= I am going to start meditating
- brave
- brand new
Any ideas are welcome!
I would also like to start up doing an online FHE once a month with a different family each month.
I also need a new and creative way to read the Book of Mormon; I have read it forwards, backwards, with a note book, in novel form, with a class, underlining the words of Christ in red, teaching a class, and in a bishop's challenge to read it in the 4 months before Christmas. I Need a new way.
I would also like to start up doing an online FHE once a month with a different family each month.
I also need a new and creative way to read the Book of Mormon; I have read it forwards, backwards, with a note book, in novel form, with a class, underlining the words of Christ in red, teaching a class, and in a bishop's challenge to read it in the 4 months before Christmas. I Need a new way.
Tuesday, December 30, 2014
2014 Best of Lists
It's the end of the year, so here are my top lists for 2014.
Top Songs (see playlist to the right to play songs):
Adore You - Miley Cyrus
Como Le Gusta Tu Cuerpo - Carlos Vives/Michel Telo
Empire - Shakira
Dare - Shakira
Come With Me Now - The Kongos
Centuries - Fall Out Boy
Cigarette Daydreams - Cage the Elephant
Flaws - Bastille
Bang, Bang - Jessie J/Ariana Grande
I Bet My Life - Imagine Dragons
Favorite Movie:
Guardians of the Galaxy
Favorite Book:
Words of Radiance - Brandon Sanderson
Favorite TV Show:
Arrow
Top Songs (see playlist to the right to play songs):
Adore You - Miley Cyrus
Como Le Gusta Tu Cuerpo - Carlos Vives/Michel Telo
Empire - Shakira
Dare - Shakira
Come With Me Now - The Kongos
Centuries - Fall Out Boy
Cigarette Daydreams - Cage the Elephant
Flaws - Bastille
Bang, Bang - Jessie J/Ariana Grande
I Bet My Life - Imagine Dragons
Favorite Movie:
Guardians of the Galaxy
Favorite Book:
Words of Radiance - Brandon Sanderson
Favorite TV Show:
Arrow
Sunday, November 30, 2014
Thanksgiving 2014
Tevia did a great job of documenting Thanksgiving on her blog, but I thought I would put some words down as I am currently on a plane from Phoenix to Chicago and have plenty of time to kill.
I love Thanksgiving as it is an opportunity to spend time with family, eat some great food, and typically is the longest holiday in the USA. This year I took an extra day off to give us time to drive up to Lakeside and go the long way and spend time with Kathy and Jimmy. It was a great idea and we had an awesome lunch there. I also love the drive up 89A north of Sedona. Oak Creek Canyon is gorgeous any time of year.
Last year we actually were in Sedona for Thanksgiving. It was a great time except a few of us, including myself, were a little sick. This year we only had one person sick (Risa's husband Mark) and hopefully nobody will catch what he had. I knew I had a business trip the week after Thanksgiving, so I really wanted to get in some good rest and enjoy the time with family. Mission accomplished. Here were some highlights:
- Enjoyed playing football with Jacob Webb and Jarek and Enok. I missed not having a Turkey Bowl so this was the next best thing.
- Had fun playing Tetris Attacks with Jarek. I don't play games with the kids as much as I used to and Jarek is getting pretty good at this game.
- Enjoyed watching some football games
- The trip around Lakeside with Tevia and the boys was actually more fun than Tevia suggests.
- The lunch at Annie's was fantastic and loved having cheesepuffs again after so many years
- The dinner at Pizza Time or whatever it was called was fun, even though the service and food wasn't all that great. It was fun to sit and talk
- Shooting guns was fun
- Loved playing games as a group. It always makes me laugh and this was no exception.
The drive home was the fastest we've ever done it in. Mark - who drove home with us as he had a plane to catch today, too - said it was because of him. He still wasn't feeling that great and the faster trip worked out great for him.
I am truly grateful for many things in my life. But mostly I love my family. Tevia is a wonderful woman who is a great example and is such a great mom to my boys. My boys bring me so much joy. They each are unique and they all make me proud to be their dad. I was touched today when Enok ran out as I was getting in the car to go to the airport and he said "just one more hug, father!". It made my evening as I knew I would spend the next few hours on a plane and rental car to the hotel. Beyond my family I have health, a good job, and many more things. It is great to remember that on Thanksgiving.
I love Thanksgiving as it is an opportunity to spend time with family, eat some great food, and typically is the longest holiday in the USA. This year I took an extra day off to give us time to drive up to Lakeside and go the long way and spend time with Kathy and Jimmy. It was a great idea and we had an awesome lunch there. I also love the drive up 89A north of Sedona. Oak Creek Canyon is gorgeous any time of year.
Last year we actually were in Sedona for Thanksgiving. It was a great time except a few of us, including myself, were a little sick. This year we only had one person sick (Risa's husband Mark) and hopefully nobody will catch what he had. I knew I had a business trip the week after Thanksgiving, so I really wanted to get in some good rest and enjoy the time with family. Mission accomplished. Here were some highlights:
- Enjoyed playing football with Jacob Webb and Jarek and Enok. I missed not having a Turkey Bowl so this was the next best thing.
- Had fun playing Tetris Attacks with Jarek. I don't play games with the kids as much as I used to and Jarek is getting pretty good at this game.
- Enjoyed watching some football games
- The trip around Lakeside with Tevia and the boys was actually more fun than Tevia suggests.
- The lunch at Annie's was fantastic and loved having cheesepuffs again after so many years
- The dinner at Pizza Time or whatever it was called was fun, even though the service and food wasn't all that great. It was fun to sit and talk
- Shooting guns was fun
- Loved playing games as a group. It always makes me laugh and this was no exception.
The drive home was the fastest we've ever done it in. Mark - who drove home with us as he had a plane to catch today, too - said it was because of him. He still wasn't feeling that great and the faster trip worked out great for him.
I am truly grateful for many things in my life. But mostly I love my family. Tevia is a wonderful woman who is a great example and is such a great mom to my boys. My boys bring me so much joy. They each are unique and they all make me proud to be their dad. I was touched today when Enok ran out as I was getting in the car to go to the airport and he said "just one more hug, father!". It made my evening as I knew I would spend the next few hours on a plane and rental car to the hotel. Beyond my family I have health, a good job, and many more things. It is great to remember that on Thanksgiving.
Wednesday, November 19, 2014
Long Weekend
I took off last Monday and Tuesday to spend some time with the family as I've been traveling a lot and the boys had off of school. It was a great idea. I had a lot of fun. Monday night we had a lot of fun going to the movies and we saw Big Hero Six, which was great. We then did dinner afterwards at Chick-Fil-A and got the peppermint shakes.
It was great to just be able to spend time with everyone and relax. I practiced some soccer with Enok, spent time with the other boys, and just enjoyed the days. It is always great to remember how wonderful your family is. My wife and kids are the reason I do everything I do. And it is good to slow down once in a while and remember why. They are great! And they bring me joy.
It was great to just be able to spend time with everyone and relax. I practiced some soccer with Enok, spent time with the other boys, and just enjoyed the days. It is always great to remember how wonderful your family is. My wife and kids are the reason I do everything I do. And it is good to slow down once in a while and remember why. They are great! And they bring me joy.
Tuesday, November 04, 2014
Kathy joins the family
After having 2 surprise C-sections, Kathy's planned C- section seemed easy. We were able to choose the day, and be totally prepared, since we also knew it was a girl.
I think we chose the date based on the doctor's suggestions, and a deer or elk hunt, but I would have to look over my old diaries to check that.
We had yearned for another child, and I had really wanted a girl. I had 2 very special spiritual experiences before Kathy was born- both confirming she was the daughter we were hoping for.
Yes, it is true, after waiting over 3 years, we were thinking of adopting, and I was actually in the doctor's office for a physical during the application phase when he asked me if I could be pregnant, and told me I was.
All my pregnancies were easy, and we were thrilled.
Financially, she was our most expensive baby. We also still had only a 2 bedroom apartment, so we had to put all 3 kids into one room.
Bret and Jacob were thrilled to have a sister. Bret was a big help, being old enough to babysit. We spent the next year still in Salt Lake, and enjoying family and friends and fun. We moved to NY right before she turned 1. We gave her a pink donut with a candle in it for her birthday that year.
Unfortunately, she was what they used to call, colicky. Every night, from after dinner to about 11pm, she was fussy, and then cried for hours. We tried rocking her, cuddling her, swaddling her. I was advised to watch my diet, I gave up chocolate, dairy, cucumbers, broccoli; basically one thing every week or so, till I realized it wasn't helping at all. When we got really frustrated, we would put her in the car and drive around to make her fall asleep.
She even started out crying more than she should right after she was born, and at her 2 week check up, the doctor told me she had 2 ear infections. I felt so guilty that I didn't know that, as she was too young to pull her ear. Poor little thing.
She had very little hair, blond like the Wall side,and chubby. I would get so upset with Ralph when he would tease me about her weight, yet, I was only nursing her, with no other foods.
I made so many cute dresses and jumpers. It was fun having a girl. As she grew, she disliked them all, wouldn't keep a clip or headband in her hair, and only liked frilly dresses and slips for a phase. One year she wouldn't wear pants, then she switched to not wanting to wear dresses.
She was stubborn and whiny, but when she turned 3, she changed into a pleasant, fun little girl. She loved to help me, and she adored her baby brother.
I can still picture you dancing on the coffee table, and watching Peter Pan and Winnie the Pooh over and over. You loved your bunny, which you were given to help you stop sucking your finger.
Kathy, you have brought much joy to our family. I love have a daughter.
I think we chose the date based on the doctor's suggestions, and a deer or elk hunt, but I would have to look over my old diaries to check that.
We had yearned for another child, and I had really wanted a girl. I had 2 very special spiritual experiences before Kathy was born- both confirming she was the daughter we were hoping for.
Yes, it is true, after waiting over 3 years, we were thinking of adopting, and I was actually in the doctor's office for a physical during the application phase when he asked me if I could be pregnant, and told me I was.
All my pregnancies were easy, and we were thrilled.
Financially, she was our most expensive baby. We also still had only a 2 bedroom apartment, so we had to put all 3 kids into one room.
Bret and Jacob were thrilled to have a sister. Bret was a big help, being old enough to babysit. We spent the next year still in Salt Lake, and enjoying family and friends and fun. We moved to NY right before she turned 1. We gave her a pink donut with a candle in it for her birthday that year.
Unfortunately, she was what they used to call, colicky. Every night, from after dinner to about 11pm, she was fussy, and then cried for hours. We tried rocking her, cuddling her, swaddling her. I was advised to watch my diet, I gave up chocolate, dairy, cucumbers, broccoli; basically one thing every week or so, till I realized it wasn't helping at all. When we got really frustrated, we would put her in the car and drive around to make her fall asleep.
She even started out crying more than she should right after she was born, and at her 2 week check up, the doctor told me she had 2 ear infections. I felt so guilty that I didn't know that, as she was too young to pull her ear. Poor little thing.
She had very little hair, blond like the Wall side,and chubby. I would get so upset with Ralph when he would tease me about her weight, yet, I was only nursing her, with no other foods.
I made so many cute dresses and jumpers. It was fun having a girl. As she grew, she disliked them all, wouldn't keep a clip or headband in her hair, and only liked frilly dresses and slips for a phase. One year she wouldn't wear pants, then she switched to not wanting to wear dresses.
She was stubborn and whiny, but when she turned 3, she changed into a pleasant, fun little girl. She loved to help me, and she adored her baby brother.
I can still picture you dancing on the coffee table, and watching Peter Pan and Winnie the Pooh over and over. You loved your bunny, which you were given to help you stop sucking your finger.
Kathy, you have brought much joy to our family. I love have a daughter.
Sunday, November 02, 2014
Halloween 2014
Beckham was Cosmo the Cougar this year for Halloween. He wore it well! Holly made him this costume and she did an excellent job. Beckham really loved trick-or-treating. He got to go to a BYU sponsored activity, a ward trunk-or-treat, a mall sponsored trick-or-treat, and he got to do a little bit of trick-or-treating on the street where Boomer's in-laws live. I'd say he had a great year this year. Here are the pics.
Beckham turns 2
Beckham had a very low key birthday party this last Thursday (His parents aren't the biggest party people in the world). Sadly I had to go into work all day and I didn't get home until around 5:30 but I was told by Holly that he had a pretty fun day. For dinner we had the Hawks over and Holly made a new chipotle chicken quesadilla recipe that she had found. They were pretty good. Then Beckham got to unwrap a couple presents. It wasn't the biggest haul I'd ever seen, we actually regifted him a fire truck that he had gotten for Christmas last year, but never played with. He loves it now though. We also got him a bag of new bouncy balls. The Hawks gave him some new cars and a coloring book. Earlier that month mom had given him a home-made city with roads for cars. He still really loves that gift. He also got a cool car ramp from the other grandparents.
After opening presents, Beckham got some cake and ice cream, both of which he really enjoyed. We played with his presents for the rest of the night (He even got to stay up an hour later than normal) and then it was off to bed for him.
I think he had a good day and we were pleased with how it went. I can't believe that he is already turning two! It just seems crazy to me that he is already that old.
After opening presents, Beckham got some cake and ice cream, both of which he really enjoyed. We played with his presents for the rest of the night (He even got to stay up an hour later than normal) and then it was off to bed for him.
I think he had a good day and we were pleased with how it went. I can't believe that he is already turning two! It just seems crazy to me that he is already that old.
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